WOW, I have never met so many members of DC, I can see great Heart in your posts! I believe that everyone is really trying to "get it right", but there is no right or wrong when it comes to someone bringing their best truth to light. Many have shared feelings and convictions and I have felt the love conveyed in what was shared. Your posts only serve to confirm the spectrum of color in the rainbow.
What is the higher self? Is it a person expressing their reality? I am inclined to say no as we all have to own up to the need to develop our floundering love into a love that is selfless, forgiving, and unconditional. One post I read pointed out that we are missing the mark. In light of the aforementioned differences between floundering love and selfless love, I have to agree. Many of the posts coming from Lightworkers in the trenches are still coming from the trenches.
Sure, we have thoughts, feelings, and memories of days and posts gone by and we want to talk them through, there is nothing wrong with that. However, the time for all of us is here and we will not have the convenience of growing wiser by visiting our issues. Nor will we have time to entertain the needs of others who want to grow wiser by using us as sounding boards. We are about to enter a whole new paradigm where the best we can do is our best to demonstrate for others what they want to see in themselves.
It is time to stop majoring in minors. Although we want others to consider our thoughts with some degree of significance, it is our demeanor and modeling that will have to speak for us. Remember the old cliche' " when you point a finger at another, there are always three fingers pointing back at you". We are not going to be able to focus on our necessary forward movement if we are brought back by the luxury of pointing fingers or verbally defending our side of the fence.
It is time to enjoy ourselves and one another. Time to climb our of the trenches and believe in the call to serve in love. If you want a project that will cost you nothing, and while you have the time, invest in yourself and develop a plan to help yourself grow your love into a world filled with emotionally and financially needy people, Remember, you won't have the luxury of time to take part in involved discussions. God is with us.