Why I Like Joseph K. SebarenziJoseph K. Sebarenzi is one of many genocide survivors who made a decision to forgive and to Immaculée Ilibagiza is another genocide survivor who has offered her story to the world as a living testimony that forgiveness is possible. Immaculée believes that reconciliation happens when a victim taps into his or her faith, hope and love and forgives the perpetrator. She has met with her once-good-neighbours-turned killers of her family and felt pity and love for them thus forgiving them. Unlike Immaculée, Joseph is among the very few Tutsi genocide survivors that insist that true reconciliation cannot be achieved solely by forgiving the Hutu perpetrators of 1994 genocide while keeping silence about the mass killings against the same Hutu community, which is also denied the opportunity to bury, mourn, and remember their loved ones who perished in the violence. Joseph Sebarenzi, lost both his parents, seven siblings, and many other relatives in the Rwandan genocide of 1994 but luckily himself and his immediate family were out of the country. He returned to Rwanda right after the end of the genocide and was elected as the Parliament House speaker. As a head of the Rwanda Parliament, Joseph distinguished himself as an authority that put first good governance and independence of the legislature. As speaker, Sebarenzi endured heavy-handed intimidation from Kagame and the coterie of followers who supported his leadership. Due to his open opposition to some of Kagame's behaviors and decisions, Sebarenzi's own life was threatened, eventually leading him to escape and seek asylum in the US, where he is now a citizen. He disagreed with his former Joseph Sebarenzi believes that reconciliation happens when the conflicting parties seat together and bring about "an honest acknowledgement of the harm or injury each party has inflicted on the other; sincere regrets and remorse for the injury done; readiness to apologize for one's role in inflicting the injury; readiness of the conflicting parties to "let go" of the anger and bitterness caused by the conflict and the injury; commitment by the offender to not repeat the injury; sincere effort to redress past grievances that caused the conflict and compensate the damage caused to the extent possible; and entrance into a new mutually enriching relationship". In his article "Rwanda: The Fundamental Obstacles to Reconciliation" he explains why reconciliation is crucially needed and how it can be achieved:
Joseph Sebarenzi concludes that "reconciliation efforts in Rwanda have thus far had fundamental problems due to the inappropriate approaches taken. The fact that the genocide was a horrendous crime against humanity perpetrated by the Hutu does not excuse the mass killings committed by the Tutsi. Although the two kinds of crimes are totally different, the reconciliation process requires establishing a complete picture of all crimes, especially the gross human rights violations. Also, since the restorative justice has the benefit of reconciling the victims and perpetrators as well as creating new relationships between the two communities, the current Gacaca form of justice should tackle the crimes committed by both sides, and should include the healing and reconciling aspects of restorative justice." The appropriate approach to promote a sustainable reconciliation is a truth commission similar to the one in South Africa, known to be one of the best conceived and the most ambitious commission to date. Otherwise, the Hutu and the Tutsi are closed up and could explode again in the future. Of course, this process requires some prerequisites such as a democratic and representative government since "democracy is a prime peace builder and an effective confidence building measure." His memoir "God Sleeps in Rwanda: A Journey of Transformation" is a harrowing tale of his survival, his exile before 1994 genocide and his return to his homeland to be elected speaker of the Rwandan parliament. The book recounts Sebarenzi's political career, with his meteoric rise to Speaker of Parliament and his escalating conflict with Kagame. |
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