Dear MPN Family, I received this email last night and it is a tough one.Kindly read and offer advise or suggestions...Thanks.
I am a young woman of 23years, and I need advice from experienced and older blog readers. And no it is not relationship wise. I am currently pursuing my masters degree in one of the Nigerian universities and also job hunting. Though it has not been easy I have been coping just fine till this year and the economic downturn reality which has made many schools hiked their fees unbelievably and my school isn't left out too. For me not to spend extra years in school and keep dashing them money I must pay my fees and finish up this year. I have been running to people for help even if it's loan while i pay back in installment but all of them want something in return; And my parents who should have helped too have not been paid for 6 months now in my state. Which has led me to the devil and the red Sea situation that I find myself.
I have this senior friend who has always promised to help me whenever the need arises, though I have never asked him for anything I thought I'd be lucky with him only for him to demand he must have sex with me before anything. Infact, he demanded for a threesome and in his words nothing in the world is free. Emeh, this man is a top man in the presidency ooo but he won't help until I spread my legs and he's been luring me with job placement offer and many other juicy packages but by God's grace I have been able to tell him off firmly.
My head ache now is the too good to be true offer I got. A friend I told my issue linked me up to someone she claimed can help only for the uncle to suggest I donate my egg to a couple trying to conceive and they are ready to pay as high as 200k.exactly my fees when you add up my defence fees.
A part of me is suggesting I do it but a greater part is raising questions I can't even answer myself. Like : won't I be attached to the child later in life? 44 Or my son/daughter falling in love with the child, you know crazy things like that? Or will the process even pose health issues to me later in life... PLEASE Miss petite Nigeria readers has anyone gone through this process? Is it the right thing to do? Please Emeh post cos I am confused as ever. My defence is in a month's time I can't participate till I pay. The couple too await my response so as to start the process then finally donate that is if I accept. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
