I have been in toxic relationship in my past, Am a very emotional lady and have been through a lot in my past.
Late August I broke up with a guy I was dating because I found out he wasn't honest and only wants nothing but sex from me, after the break up I met this great guy, that was during the moment I was hurting but I was sure I didn't want any relationship at that point, but he kept calm and penetrated into my life slowly and now I think I can't live without him, but I think he is cheating {let me be plain}. When I met him, he said he was still a virgin and he is 28. At first I was like in this our generation? 28?
A virgin? You've got to be kidding, Buh he kept telling me that till I had no option but to believe him. We haven't had any sex yet, When we got into the relationship,I felt like I was in heaven and that I have finally found true love but then after some weeks I started noticing/seeing text messages from girls, he even gave me his phone with those messages there, so when I saw and asked him, he said the girls were his admirers and that they wanted to be with him, and that if he had something to hide he would had deleted the messages before giving phone to me, which was actually logical,they call him every time am with him which is very annoying, i had to take their numbers and saved it to my phone, hoping that one day i will have to call them and tell them to stop calling him,he receives their calls sometimes when ever they call he pretends that it is his male friends, he puts the phone on mute then starts calling them male names,( caught him do one though) .
I always confront him whenever I notice anything, but he keeps saying that my mistrust issues are breaking the relationship and that he is tired of my jealousy, he said it is because of my past relationship, that is why I don't get to trust him, Buh messages I see make me feel otherwise, am so confused now, he is a great guy I can't deny that fact, but I don't know how to handle this jealousy, sometimes I feel Like I should give my self a break from all this and get over my past, but my emotions are now involved, but he seems not to understand that point..
Please my fellow readers what do you think I should do?
