(en) Queer existence against heteronormative monogamous
relationship and marriage (tr) [machine translation]
As a historical institution of marriage is not mutual love has always been ailelerara
trade. Today, there are two constituent elements of progressive relationship like marriage
and marriage rehearsal: monogamy and heteronormativity. The first and the second to own
bodies inevitably reaches the limitation of sexual desire. Which is a masterpiece of
monogamy and male heteronormativity; most women, LGBT and queer are printing on. Sexuality
and places authoritarian hierarchy are also thought the top of the pyramid married
heterosexual couples. There are women all over the ceremonial delivery of the process
leading to marriage. White wedding mandated virginity until marriage women icons. Surname
head rivets on the marriage.
Woman running away with all this symbolism even if only against; marriage and its
rehearsals, "the body belongs to me" and similar ownership mAlArlA loved alleged person is
objectified. Moreover, this fiction, which excludes the other rises on women and gender
identity and sexual orientation of male heterosexual union. Although not much difference,
as a result of family ownership body is received by the industry and sold; meta. Family
based on gender duality, capitalism is the smallest and most basic cells. States are
encouraged by the substance; because the system of home-car-furniture-resorts will return
as a consumer. A period of self-sustained religious authority marital sex and birth in
Europe over the place now left to tell the scientific; but exclusion remained the same.
Psychiatric social pressure was increased until the geylig disease, now says the disease
is still not to be monogamous.
Feminine and masculine bodies, bodies are also among them; but men and women so we
expected it to take two downloaded and teak boxes. Rest of the way not only to speed up
the bureaucratic work is to ignore all sexual orientation and experience in this
production. This made it so internalized that when women are now turning to immediately
destroy our little mustache, we're going to repent if we accidentally male swagger. First,
from infancy "only heterosexuals in the world, they live just straight unity" we impose;
Then we show the marriage billion as evidence. You do not have self-fulfilling prophecy
marriage?
Feminism war not unlike the most respected scientists and philosophers to the period
before the first show yourself ignorant team. The philosophers of the Enlightenment
period, through the cooperation of scientists also "women are mothers, sentiment is
universal, exploratory nature does not protect" was laying the stones to the secondary
role of women saying. The first wave of feminism woman on top of the approach protects
against man, man was preparing a second wave of ground to undo moves they stole from her.
"Personal, which was political." The nuclear family was under the lens. The new feminism
woman closer to pleasure not only to play to protect him from trouble. Come enjoy one of
the guise of a family of thieves. Gender and sexuality term struggle for separation from
each other, "the head of gender, sexuality legs" he said at the time of the trans action.
But sexless sexuality society proposal, sexual pleasure, to make independent from the
body; because it was to get to discipline the gender sexuality.
Nature of queer theory as a feminist critique of feminism says that through some form of
feminism also fed the gender binary and glorified heterosexual desire. What gender
sexuality freely in front of our life as what we call gender hurdle obstacles that are not
bi? So, just "looks at women and children, man goes to work" not "take women give men" is
what we call a cultural fiction! Does everyone forced on us, ready to use as he saw've
heard from someone else genitals? Let's now turn to face our friends, we hide when we
suppress their own eyes the Reach; Let our bedroom in the series really like? Who reached
not güreşerek satisfaction combined with their loved ones, who reversed gender roles in
combination with their loved ones slave play game who is not loving well who have sex as
such, or a job, living with a not many people love and sexuality, not peers in mind as you
like, such as those for people from other generations. They are the only ones if you add
color to fancy or relationship? Heterosexual or homosexual sex is not a merger for some
people, they get up to go to bed with another fall. The place name to be queer sexuality
as an umbrella concept for the repressed sexual orientation, such that, in the name of
those who are open to it and accept a variety of amphibian experience. So either the
personification not yet a denial of sexual orientation or gender identity.
It is precisely for this reason that queer, monogamous draw heteronormative necessary to
decipher! Imposed by society as heterosexual women to public morality single guard and the
symbol is declared to ruin his marriage and rehearsal important for the other woman! The
dominant view of women as subordinate other sexual orientation and that he did not even
want to hear at the rear and also comfortable existence with barely take a breath this
corrupt. All sexual and emotional needs of our thoughts can go through a person has
learned, even learned helplessness; because nobody likes people are not automata, can not
meet every expectation. Let Bi, what we seek: to spend a semester or a person lives with
the person we find sexy we feel very close to it, we feel forced to have sex. Misery,
hypocrisy, inability to be honest, jealousy, infidelity ... These we try to play a bit
role given to us ... turn Love domination, we think the rule of love to take the freedom
of dating ... monogamy to the imposition of not disclosing the sign of those who deceive
traffic loyalty bi! Especially in a society where male dominance is felt intensely, such
as Turkey, while promoting getaway married men, married women break the condemnation of
violence ...
Many alternatives to heteronormative monogamous union: single parents, communal living,
open relationships, etc. çokaşklılık In conclusion, they said:
Sex is not the enemy is not honest.
Love is not limited to infinity.
Jealousy caused millions of domestic violence and separation.
Jealousy if trust can be overcome with time. Free drop, you love you love one's heart, you
loved.
A woman who wants freedom, gear and not worry about them too kuir evil. Authoritarian
parents if they burn collar.
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