NOW WHAT?Has the mantra “use it or lose it” ever had more poignancy? There are so many reasons for frustration and fury with Obama and the Democrats and the opportunity they have squandered. Yes, it appears that health care might become Obama’s Waterloo after all – but because of his own party, not because of the Republicans.Various postmortemshttp://www.talkingpointsmemo.com/archives/2010/01/